Allah have been prescribing that be particular subject interest between male and woman. And for that, Allah also those arrange form of relationship should be done, so that between they does not arise undesirable things. However, also many human which violate that limits up to they succumb ashamed because blunder they doing. Unable men get a grip on its of affinity be in women, sure easy to do things which became Taala Allah's prohibition.


When discussing of women's slander, not mean the woman evil and like evil. But what does it mean was the state of they able making man forget land and when prevention efforts undone, will happen undesirable things. This of course when men that not careful. Like livestock animal eat near grass with prohibition field, is easy of the animal enter the area that.


This defamation can happen in two state, namely before second this type married and when or after this men and woman marry. Before marrying, Islamic determine are mahram and which not mahram. Among others, would be to facilitate human know those people permitted they relating or mix freely and that does not can do like that. Collision in this certainty would cause sinful matter which occurred. Customary human do something bad phased in in keeping with the disobedience form.

Starting from venial sin such as see, title-tattle (tete-a-tete), holding and touching skin and finally made great sin. Those people commit adultery is really no his price beside Allah, except he repents. Overcome adultery problem insurmountable only by providing welfare homes for them already blundered. What main was put something across to them about religion's guide in this problem and in other life problem

Islam in this problem, set aside heavy sentence to adulterer, because they has been concentrated to start its. After marrying also, a husband sometimes no able to lead nicely and perfect. Peace rightly dikecapi during marry, be mere empty dream. Marry with heart ' desire woman apparently no as beautiful as his name. Because of was process and marriage goals no track what have been lined by Allah.

Beauty which became the basis of selection apparently like quoted prickly rose nothing fragrant its sweet. "Hi faithful people, indeed between wife isterimu and children anakmu some became enemy to-you, then be careful you towards them. And if you forgive and not anger and forgive (they) then indeed Maha Pengampun's Allah more Maha Penyayang ." (At-Taghaabun : 14)

Fugginess real not a disparaging woman. Andaikata they receive education which good and understand religion's requirement in matters faced, they hence becoming motivator digigih. In keeping with their incident is such of ribs bengkuk, good leadership of male party would be able to bring they to straight road. If that state picture defamation faced through woman, surely greater his state when the woman in the swim indecent matters.

If in mosque and in state household can be become nervous because less understanding its woman to something, surely more challenging if keadan this am being spurred when outside mosque and household. Prophet saw have given message to frequent ruler's friends lie around ditepi road so that care road rights, namely taking care of views, does not disrupt passerby, answering greetings and doing vice prevention. (Riwayat Bukhari's hadith and Islamic from Abu Said al-Khudry).

This mean, each member of society will receive consequently when sin atmosphere fattened especially through evil ladies. Written in Islamic history, that sentence 1-2 Surah At Tahrim descends owing to wives action king. When finished king drink honey at home Saudah's majesty's wife, he said that be bad odor. Similarly when completed king drink honey at home Aisyah, she is told that be bad odor. Past Rasulullah saw because to care his wife ' feeling has pledged to no drink honey more.

When respectively its paying proper attention for mutual building happiness, then they will enjoy its perfectly. Abu Hurairah ra says that Rasulullah saw decree that : "Completeness someone's faith was best his character,and as good as you was superlative his social intercourse on his wife." (Tirmizi's Story). And in a hadith from Abdullah bin Amru al-Ash, that Rasulullah decree that : "This world is ornament and as good as ornament are women solehah." (by muslim)